Taking into account the real of jouissance of the body and of the scopic dimension of this body is fundamental in sexuation. The focus of jouissance on the external organ, which gives the impetus to the phallic jouissance, can be the choice of the subjects of both sexes, even if this focus appears to be more frequent in men, more prompt to halt at the enjoyment of the nomination of their organ. This choice comes in opposition to receiving the jouissance Other which is made accessible by the affirmation of loss to the detriment of the strategy of the lack, the latter aimed at masking the hole of the object “a”.